Join Stephan’s Authentic Game Newsletter @ www.tooshytodate.com All self development or self improvement or self help techniques have a very important element to them that most people that want to improve themselves struggle with implementation. If you don’t implement an idea that helps you improve yourself it simply stays in your head. You become great at knowing about self help techniques, or you get great at talking about how people can improve themselves, you become excellent at explaining what affirmations are, what rapport is whatever it is you’re learning about….but YOU DON’T REALLY GET THE BENEFIT YOU COULD GET IF YOU KNEW HOW TO IMPLEMENT IT. If you watch my videos, read articles, learn about dating tips, dating techniques, methods to attract women that make sense to you and that give you a deeper understanding and you then don’t implement them in your life, you’re selling yourself short. See, if you’re into self improvement and helping yourself to become a better man and you learn a lot of ideas, methods and strategies to change and make more of yourself and you don’t know how to implement them properly you might actually get more frustrated in the process. In fact, if you don’t manage to implement ideas you like you’re seriously affecting your self image and your self respect. So in this video I give you my simple 3 step formula for learning and implementing any skill, technique or method that involves other people or a social setting. Following this 3 step …
sure i will implement it,,and wanna thanx for sharing video..”how can i make this day the best day of my life” was helpful to smile every day with so much reason around..thanx again teacher..
The key I’ve found after that night at the bar is the simpler and shorter your words are the easier it is for people to understand you and the biggest thing is to think before you speak. Social skills are not something everyone has naturally, but can be developed and it’s not something everyone(at least that I’ve encountered) can do over night. It takes time and a lot of practice.
I looked up social skills in general and a found that the higher your IQ is the lower your social skills and common sense tend to be on average. This is something I personally have been working very hard at for the past 3 years once I realized it was a problem in my life and because of it most people had(some still have) problem understanding what I say. I remember getting wasted at a bar once(which I don’t tend to drink) and I got along with most people them. Continued.
im just really bad at this 🙁
haha you make me laught when you say: ” it takes me years to figured it out” you said it on a lot of video XD who cares? great vid
Now it took me a couple of months to figure out what happend to this girl. Now my problem is she knows I live near the store where she use to work. So how can I show up where she works now without seeming like a stalker or creep?
Hi Stephan I have enjoyed your videos, and I’ve used your mental pre-play track. Also I’ve used it in a real life situation with a girl I’m interested that worked at a local store. I’ve talked to her twice, and both interactions were pretty good. I have however been thrown a loop. She has been transferred to another store on the other side of the city where I live.
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cheers mate. great stuff. you are my love guru 😉
this is true. from my very few experiences, at least when i’ve been lucky (lol), i’ve noticed when talking to a girl much success depended on when it felt natural and i wasn’t overthinking things. i just said what was on my mind and 90% of the time i got a positive response, even if she thought what i said was silly she’d still smile.. but when i’ve over thought things it never went positively. they were never rude, they just gave me that subtle attitude like they weren’t interested.
Quick answer: visualisation is when you’re by yourself and you imagine doing something in your mind. Do this when you’re by yourself only. When you’re WITH a girl you don’t visualise. When you’re with a girl you should focus on what’s happening right in front of you and what you want her to do right now. S.
in one of ur video u said go direct without making stories in ur mind which leads to negativity but now ur talking abt visualizing.. umm, m confused m8
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Stephan the Great!
Genius.
The amount of shit guys have to do to get pussy
great video anyway
you should make a video of how you stile your hair
it’s all good ways he teach. thanks for that pls
just watched your vid here,my thoughts,very very gd insight into implementing ideas and concepts,into reality about social/life skills,take the approach women aspect of it,which honestly i struggle a bit on but after this i’m truly open to these aspects or steps you laid laid out here,truly inspiring! thankyou stephen,i feel better about all this after watching this,i’m going to really bring this onboard and be insired by this! very well worth a viewing! cheers!
Thank you man, you have really heped me a lot!!
Dude I am confused..I couldn’t describe myself! Sometimes I am very social sometimes I exactly the opposite. For example:
In the city where I study in university I have a lot of friends, girlfriend, I go to clubs very often, I approach and meet new girls, have fun and I am considered as socialized guy.
In the city (both small cities) where I was born and am right now (school ends in July), I am considered as shy, not socialized, I don’t have friends, and couldn’t adapt! Can you explain this?
I love you man… You help me out so much
This is like a “Life lesson” even regardless to the relationship standing aspect, this guy has helped me!
MAKES SENSE!!!
That’s what i needed, that seems like a viable solution for my dilemma. I’m a 32 year old Aspie, natural born nerd, so to say, and so I’m genetically/cognitively unsuited to approach the gentle sex. But these suggestions might enable me to finally approach a women, yay.
I still have no clue how to show a woman my interest in a relation with her yet, but the mere prospective of a nice conversation with someone of the opposite sex seems like the garden Eden to me.
Thank you so much