Matthew Hussey discusses procrastination. Sign up to receive Matthew’s newsletter and dating advice for women and how to find the guy, attract the guy and keep the guy.: www.howtogettheguy.com Matthew Hussey is an international speaker and dating coach, He is the star of NBC’s Ready for Love and a regular expert on MTV’s Plain Jane. Matthew has helped thousands of women discover what men want. Find more of Matthew Hussey’s dating tips here: www.themanmyth.com Facebook: www.facebook.com Twitter: www.twitter.com
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Also I’d like to make one thing VERY clear. Somebody being lazy rarely if ever means that they don’t want to help you, don’t love you or don’t care. Procrastination is a entirely different mindset, that’s why it’s so fucking hard to break out of. As he said, it’s an invisible wall and depending on the person, pressure such as a deadline or people yelling at you, getting angry or expecting something do not help in the slightest. So try to remember that when you don’t understand their behavior.
I have what I suppose you could call clinical procrastination? And OCD and It’s caused by fear of failure and it starts to get even into things you love. I haven’t drawn for years which was a stress reliever because I feel I’ll fail at it. This is the FIRST video I’ve ever seen that doesn’t say the stupid bullshit that everyone says helps because it DOESN’T. There is a lot of truth in just getting up and doing SOMETHING even if it’s not what you should be doing. Procrastination sucks so much.
That is true because my brother does this… He get mad when i get lazy somedays and just sit around all day so he gets up and strts to clean up the room and tell me to get up. Always thought he did it to aggrevate me but it all makes sense
So….. I’m procrastinating =)) Obviously
dust your keyboard? get the bread crumbs out of it? 🙂
I’m not doing my homework right now…
Immediately after watching this I went to play videogames… fuck.
You are so right. keep up the videos. We need them.
BITCHES IMMA GO BREAK THAT WALLL!
…after another five minutes of watching his videos.
Imagine the devastation if he’s gay…
I’m sorry but this has nothing to do with your video(which I love) but I looooooove Ur accent!!!
Love this video, i’m always doing good in what i’m assigned to do but if i didn’t procrastinate i’d probably do amazing. Not many people tell you this but thank you for your advice!
I procrastinated to watch this video, I paused the video to procrastinate, and I procrastinated to think about how to stop procrastinating.
your eyebrows are distracting by the way…
But I’m procrastinating right now…
An approaching deadline also helps, it gets the adrenaline going.
I like your eyebrows hehe :]
for me, procrastination helps me try harder. so i feel like i do better. but maybe its just in my head? i do everything last minute n everything is always fine
for true!!!!!
You remind me of Daniel Radcliffe a little bit…. :S
“Add to…
-Watch Later”.
I’ve been procrastinating to do my work, then I saw this title… I wanted to watch it to get over my procrastination habit… but then I was procrastinating to watch this video and watched other videos. 3 days later, finally watched it!
This is brilliant!
This really untangled my mind about all this procrastination and how to get away from the lazy ‘can’t be arsed’ mood and back into the ‘to-do’ mood.
Thanks!!! 😀 -3