Learn How To Attract Women Here: www.TooShyToDate.com. Get my “Nerve Stop” Technique and get onto my insider AUTHENTIC GAME newsletter. Many people think attracting women works by showing women you’re attracted to them by doing nice things for them and women will just feel attraction back. Other people say that to attract women you need to be a jerk or bad boy because that is the real way to attract women. But nobody seems to talk about the powerful social mechanism that’s causing a lot of men who try the “nice guy” way to attract a girl by being a super nice guy to end up lonely and wondering why (despite all their obvious efforts to show why they are the best man for the girl they like) the girl just doesn’t seem to “feel any attraction”. And a lot of guys who go with the “bad boy” approach to attract women end up alienating the women they want to attract the most. In this video Stephan Erdman from TooShyToDate.com is explaining the real underlying reason why being overly nice to a girl you’re attracted to in will often destroy attraction that might well have developed if you hadn’t made any extra effort or bought her those flowers or took her out to fancy places or called her 5 times a day or all the other things men often do to show a girl they “like” her… Being a “jerk” (whatever that’s meant to be) is certainly not the answer..but in the video Stephan gives several precise tips to avoid ever making the crucial mistake of putting reciprocation pressure on a woman …
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One of the best videos out there! I mean Wow!
Guys, getting girls does not need to be hard (I used to feel it did). I’ll give you some advice right now. Look for a dating course called Sozofintao Dating Manual (google it). Seriously, that program has transformed my life. I probably shouldn’t even be talking about it because I don’t want a bunch of other guys out there running the same “game” but whatever, I am in a great mood today so I will share the wealth haha.
I hope you learned your lesson. 😉
The socially conditioned man is like that, not a masculine man. That’s why he’s not trustworthy; he is simply regurgitating a schematic that he has been “programmed” with in order to achieve a specific result, then he gets all pissy when/if it doesn’t work.
The other men (whom you called “dicks”) and being their true, authentic selves, which is much more trustworthy. I don’t know why you assume men like this ONLY want sex.
“currently”? Nice guys have always been shit on. This is not a modern phenomenon.
Most men’s genuine self is not nice, or at least not JUST nice.
You can be kind to a woman AND keep her on her toes. It has a lot more to do with your attitude and experience with dating and women, and your beliefs about women, love, sex and relationships.
Potatoe!
someone please tell me… WHY ARE ALL THE COMMENTS SO DAMN LONG?
Jack !!… you nailed it, thanks Stephan…you don’t have to be over nice, but you still don’t act like a jerk around women either. You wouldn’t be helping them or yourself.
And at 3:50 therein lies the problem. Instead of being genuinely your “nice self”, if you happen to be a nice guy in reality, you have to play this game to keep her on her toes, make her unsure of whethere you lactually like her or not, so that her confusion and indecision will play into your hands.
And people are calling “Nice Guys” manipulators… christ..
And you know it;s interesting that you talk about the face niceness, because women do this to each other (you wouldnt believe how catty, bitchy, and fake BEST FRIEND FOREVER are..) all the time, and consider it natural behavior for themselves. They also do this with men.
The reason “nice guys” are currently being shit on is because Nice guys are reflecting all the real values they lack in themselves, and since it’s dangerous to call yourself out on being a fake user cunt, its nice guys that are
in children, the girl shows her interest by huge amounts of affection. mass kissing and puppy dog following.
the boy shows his interest by pushing her down.
In adults, the man who is polite, Gentile, and willing to give a little to give a little, is classic scum trying to manipulate his way into sex.
The man who is a dick, and ultimately wants sex and only sex, is a cool guy to go off and fuck.
Maybe it means that our culture really HAS bene reduced to infantile.
GIRL-why didn’t you text me back last night
BOY-well i went to the tiolet shut the door sat down then i heard a text but i was busy taking a shit, when i came out i was so tired of all the tuff concentration of pushing so damn hard so i went to bed
GIRL-so wtf you can’t text good night ASS whole
BOY-fuck you and fuck this BULLSHIT relationship were done its over WHOLE
GIRL-well that sounds fucking perfect because this relationship was going down the drain anyways bitch
BOY-i thought, of you
GIRL-why didn’t you text me back last night
BOY-well i went to the tiolet shut the door sat down then i heard a text but i was busy taking a shit, when i came out i was so tired of all the tuff concentration of pushing so damn hard so i went to bed
GIRL-so wtf you can’t text good night ASS whole
BOY-fuck you and fuck this BULLSHIT relationship were done its over WHOLE
GIRL-well that sounds fucking perfect because this relationship was going down the drain anyways bitch
BOY-i thought, of you
Guys, getting girls doesn’t have to be difficult (I used to think it did). I’ll give you some advice right now. Look for a dating course known as Sozofintao Dating Manual (google it). Seriously, that course has transformed my entire life. I probably should not even be mentioning it because I don’t want a bunch of other guys out there running the same “game” but whatever, I’m in a good mood today so I’ll share the wealth haha.
dude its called being polite, sure its pretending, but its because yuore being polite, so what are we talking about here
BE POLITE, DUH
Brilliant analogy… Your right.
Gotdam! That’s hot as fucking shit!
Happened to me once this summer, I did my very best to get any girl who caught my attention, they ended up telling me they were in a relationship or, they thought I was too nice. I went back to my hotel I felt like shit, and I had the chance to meet welcoming group of people, I acted normal and all, and there were about 3 girls, I said to myself that I had no chance, and chose to ignore them, surprisingly, they were interested in me and asked me loads of questions.I ended up making out with one!
Ive done so much wrong!!
That, my friend, is a damn interesting observation.
Next time one of them tries to take a shot cover yourself and tell them with a DEAD serious look: “This s*** ain’t for free. Gimme your cell and we’ll talk”.
wtf is a heart-on